1) If its an in-place upgrade for a Standalone Server, the SharePoint Products Configuration wizard doesn't provide the visual upgrade feature. you can avail of this feature only using Psconfig command-line tool to perform the upgrade.
psconfig.exe -cmd upgrade [-preserveolduserexperience
2) If its for a Server Farm, you can activate a visual upgrade option by using the visual upgrade page of the SharePoint Products Configuration Wizard.